Try again to fix accumulation of parallel worker instrumentation.

Try again to fix accumulation of parallel worker instrumentation.

When a Gather or Gather Merge node is started and stopped multiple
times, accumulate instrumentation data only once, at the end, instead
of after each execution, to avoid recording inflated totals.

Commit 778e78ae9fa51e58f41cbdc72b293291d02d8984, the previous attempt
at a fix, instead reset the state after every execution, which worked
for the general instrumentation data but had problems for the additional
instrumentation specific to Sort and Hash nodes.

Report by hubert depesz lubaczewski.  Analysis and fix by Amit Kapila,
following a design proposal from Thomas Munro, with a comment tweak
by me.

Discussion: http://postgr.es/m/20171127175631.GA405@depesz.com