arbitrate when there is a conflict between gender term (male or female) and
a gender-tied monster name (cavewoman) during ^G; gender term wins
wizard mode sanity check complained about Wizard's clone mimicking a monster
+new ^G gender-naming handling code required a guard against null permonst
+ pointer which could occur under some circumstances
curses: 'msg_window' option wasn't functional for curses unless the binary
also included tty support