Skip ambulkdelete scan if there's nothing to delete and the index is not

Skip ambulkdelete scan if there's nothing to delete and the index is not
partial.  None of the existing AMs do anything useful except counting
tuples when there's nothing to delete, and we can get a tuple count
from the heap as long as it's not a partial index.  (hash actually can
skip anyway because it maintains a tuple count in the index metapage.)
GIST is not currently able to exploit this optimization because, due to
failure to index NULLs, GIST is always effectively partial.  Possibly
we should fix that sometime.
Simon Riggs w/ some review by Tom Lane.