* src/ejabberdctl.template: Create logs_dir if doesn't exist. New

* src/ejabberdctl.template: Create logs_dir if doesn't exist. New
parameters --config, --ctl-config, --logs, --spool. Crash dump
renamed to erl_crash_DATETIME.dump.

* src/ejabberdctl.template: Backport improvements from binary
installer (EJAB-488): options are simple values; enable Kernel
Poll by default, set SMP to auto, set max ports to 32000, max
processes to 250000.
* src/ejabberdctl.cfg.example: Likewise

* src/ejabberd.inetrc: Renamed ejabberd.inetrc to inetrc
* src/inetrc: Likewise
* src/Makefile.in: Likewise
* doc/guide.tex: Likewise

SVN Revision: 1134