Fix hanging API connections

Fix hanging API connections

There was a problem identified where an upstream API connection was found hanging waiting
for a TLS handshake to complete.  Seeingly the TCP connection was ESTABLISHED locally but
not cleanly terminated remotely.  The Socket events layer never triggered the TLS handshake
oddly.  This however enables TCP keep alive packets to detect broken connections, raising
EPOLLERR and breaking the deadlock condition so that the agent will attempt to reconnect
at a later time.

fixes #12003

Signed-off-by: Gunnar Beutner <gunnar.beutner@netways.de>