mpm_winnt: Advertise support for preshutdown notifications in the service,

mpm_winnt: Advertise support for preshutdown notifications in the service,
and perform shutdown in respond to SERVICE_CONTROL_PRESHUTDOWN.

The pure shutdown notification leaves a small amount of time for the service
to finish (and the allowed amount of time has been shrinking with every new
version of Windows), and handling only it increases the chance of the process
being killed by SCM, instead of gracefully shutting down.  Handling the
preshutdown control code extends this period, and increases the chances of
finishing everything properly when the machine is rebooted or shut down.

(See https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/windows/desktop/ms683241)

Please note that although the preshutdown notifications are available only
starting from Windows Vista, the code is compatible with the previous versions
of Windows, since the SCM ignores unknown SERVICE_ACCEPT codes, and will
still send an ordinary SERVICE_CONTROL_SHUTDOWN under old Windows
versions.

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