Flush relcache entries when their FKs are meddled with

Flush relcache entries when their FKs are meddled with

Back in commit 100340e2dcd0, we made relcache entries keep lists of the
foreign keys applying to the relation -- but we forgot to update
CacheInvalidateHeapTuple to flush those entries when new FKs got created
or existing ones updated/deleted.  No bugs appear to have been reported
that would be explained by this ommission, but I noticed the problem
while working on an unrelated bugfix which clearly showed it.  Fix by
adding relcache flush on relevant foreign key changes.

Backpatch to 9.6, like the aforementioned commit.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/201901211927.7mmhschxlejh@alvherre.pgsql
Reviewed-by: Tom Lane