Add default FILEDIR path to zpool-config scripts

Add default FILEDIR path to zpool-config scripts

Allow the caller of the zpool-create.sh script to override
the default path where file vdevs are created.  This allows
for greated flexibilty when scripting.

Additionally, update the default path from /tmp/ to /var/tmp/
because these days /tmp/ is likely a ramdisk.  Even though
these files are sparse they may grow large in which case they
should be backed by a physical device.

Signed-off-by: Richard Yao <ryao@gentoo.org>
Signed-off-by: Tim Chase <tim@chase2k.com>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Closes #2120