more autopickup_exception

more autopickup_exception

An optimization.

Split the patterns into two chains, one for things you want "always picked up", and one for things you want "never picked up".  That way, the
entire exception list isn't being checked twice, once for each type of
check.  The check for things to "always pick up" only checks the
chain at the AP_GRAB index, and the check for things to "never
pick up" only checks the chain at the AP_LEAVE index.

- Also modifies the toggle autopickup '@' message
appropriately for the AUTOPICKUP_EXCEPTIONS build.
(it just tacks on ", with some exceptions" if there are some)