bufferevent: move conn_address out from http into bufferevent

bufferevent: move conn_address out from http into bufferevent

In http the only case when when we could store it is when we already
connected, *but* if we are doing request using domain name, then we need
to do request to nameserver to get IP address, and this is handled by
bufferevent.
So when we have IP address (from nameserver) and don't have connection
to this IP address, we could already cache it to avoid extra DNS
requests (since UDP is slow), and we can't do this from http layer, only
from bufferevent.