^X fixes (trunk only)

^X fixes  (trunk only)

     Being a cavewoman polymorphed into a male creature revealed multiple
mistakes in the post-3.4.3 ^X code, including the initial title text.
It was using current gender in several places where it should have been
using the saved value that applies when not polymorphed, leading to
confusion as to whether you'd changed genders if/when current and saved
ones were different.  More noticeable with gender-distinct role names.