bpo-9263: _PyObject_Dump() detects freed memory (GH-10061)

bpo-9263: _PyObject_Dump() detects freed memory (GH-10061)

_PyObject_Dump() now uses an heuristic to check if the object memory
has been freed: log "<freed object>" in that case.

The heuristic rely on the debug hooks on Python memory allocators
which fills the memory with DEADBYTE (0xDB) when memory is
deallocated. Use PYTHONMALLOC=debug to always enable these debug
hooks.