Issue #12333: run tests on the new module in a subprocess

Issue #12333: run tests on the new module in a subprocess

It is not possible to unload a module written in C, so use a subprocess to run
the tests on the module compiled by test_build_ext(). Using a subprocess, we
don't have to unload the module, save/restore sys.path, and the test can be run
more than once.

This commit fixes also an access error on rmtree() on Windows: because the
module was not really unloaded, it was not possible to remove the temporary
directory (it is not possible to remove a directory on Windows if it still
contains an open file).