bpo-36389: _PyObject_CheckConsistency() available in release mode (GH-16612)

bpo-36389: _PyObject_CheckConsistency() available in release mode (GH-16612)

bpo-36389, bpo-38376: The _PyObject_CheckConsistency() function is
now also available in release mode. For example, it can be used to
debug a crash in the visit_decref() function of the GC.

Modify the following functions to also work in release mode:

* _PyDict_CheckConsistency()
* _PyObject_CheckConsistency()
* _PyType_CheckConsistency()
* _PyUnicode_CheckConsistency()

Other changes:

* _PyMem_IsPtrFreed(ptr) now also returns 1 if ptr is NULL
  (equals to 0).
* _PyBytesWriter_CheckConsistency() now returns 1 and is only used
  with assert().
* Reorder _PyObject_Dump() to write safe fields first, and only
  attempt to render repr() at the end.