SEEK_HOLE should not block on txg_wait_synced()

SEEK_HOLE should not block on txg_wait_synced()

Force flushing of txg's can be painfully slow when competing for disk
IO, since this is a process meant to execute asynchronously. Optimize
this path via allowing data/hole seeking if the file is clean, but if
dirty fall back to old logic. This is a compromise to disabling the
feature entirely.

Reviewed-by: Giuseppe Di Natale <dinatale2@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: George Melikov <mail@gmelikov.ru>
Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: Debabrata Banerjee <dbanerje@akamai.com>
Closes #4306
Closes #5962