[PBQP] Unique allowed-sets for nodes in the PBQP graph and use pairs of these

[PBQP] Unique allowed-sets for nodes in the PBQP graph and use pairs of these
sets as keys into a cache of interference matrice values in the Interference
constraint adder.

Creating interference matrices was one of the large remaining time-sinks in
PBQP. Caching them reduces the total compile time (when using PBQP) on the
nightly test suite by ~10%.

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