Be more paranoid in ruleutils.c's get_variable().

Be more paranoid in ruleutils.c's get_variable().

We were merely Assert'ing that the Var matched the RTE it's supposedly
from.  But if the user passes incorrect information to pg_get_expr(),
the RTE might in fact not match; this led either to Assert failures
or core dumps, as reported by Chris Hanks in bug #14220.  To fix, just
convert the Asserts to test-and-elog.  Adjust an existing test-and-elog
elsewhere in the same function to be consistent in wording.

(If we really felt these were user-facing errors, we might promote them to
ereport's; but I can't convince myself that they're worth translating.)

Back-patch to 9.3; the problematic code doesn't exist before that, and
a quick check says that 9.2 doesn't crash on such cases.

Michael Paquier and Thomas Munro

Report: <20160629224349.1407.32667@wrigleys.postgresql.org>